What To Wear On A First Date (For Men)

For most men, the only times they ever worry about what they are going to wear is when going to an interview and going on a first date. And even then, sometimes they don’t worry about those events. Dressing to impress is not usually high on a man’s list of priorities.

But, when going on a first date – if you ever want to make it to a second date – dressing correctly is vital. A woman will make a split-second decision on you based on what you are wearing. It’s not fair, but it’s the truth.

So, what do women want to see you in? Most importantly, women want you to be wearing something appropriate for the date and something that doesn’t make her look bad. If you are hearing a suit and she has on jeans, she will blame YOU! Thus, the first step in deciding what to wear is to figure out where you are going and what you are going to do. And, it is not unusual for a man to ask her date what she will be wearing. This shows that he wants to dress in the same fashion she is.

If you are going out to dinner, “dress casual” is probably appropriate. However, in different parts of the country that could mean different things. In the summer or in a tropical climate, dress casual could mean nice shorts and a polo shirt. In the winter, it may mean a turtle-neck, vest sweater, coat, and scarf. The best bet is to take your lead from her.

A few things to avoid on your first date: Don’t wear sandals. Men’s feet are generally not things women want to see on the first date. Don’t wear pants that sag so low that your underwear is showing. Don’t wear any attire with an offensive logo or slogan. And, unless you are going to a baseball game, leave the baseball cap at home.

Wear clean socks, clean underwear (you never know what might happen!), pressed shirt and pants, and make sure your shoes are clean and appropriate for the rest of your outfit. Don’t wear tennis shoes with pants!

If you still aren’t sure what to wear on your first date, call your mom! She’ll dress you so that no woman could turn you down.