What To Wear On A First Date (For Women)

A woman’s first choice for attire on a first date is usually to dress sexy. Well, unless you are looking for sex on that first date, it’s not a wise choice. If you are looking for a relationship, it is better to hide the goods until later.

One of the most important things to consider when planning your outfit for a first date is what you are planning to do. Is it dinner and a movie? A ballgame? A day at the park? You need to know what the plan is, and don’t be afraid to ask your date what he has in mind. He wants you to dress appropriately, too, so tell him you are trying to figure out what to wear and he’ll appreciate it.

Many women are completely obsessed with shoes, but the first date is not the time to try out your sexy new pumps. You’ll be nervous enough already and if you worried at all about keeping balance in those shoes, don’t do it. A man has far more respect for a woman who chooses to be comfortable than a woman who chooses to make a statement. By wearing comfortable shoes, you leave the night open for more fun – a long, romantic walk, dancing, etc. – and crazy high shoes would limit your fun.

If you are going out at night, nothing beats the black dress. A short (but not too short), basic black dress always looks good on almost any body. It hides a multitude of faults and you will look elegant without being overdressed at almost any occasion. Remember, though, the two of you both want to walk into a restaurant or a movie being dressed at the same level – you don’t want him in jeans and you in a cocktail dress (or him in a tux and you in shorts) – so don’t try and outdo him.

Whatever you wear, dress comfortably. Your outfit needs to reflect your style, make a subtle impression, but most importantly, you need to feel confident in it. If you are wearing something that you need to keep adjusting or toying with, you won’t feel confident and you won’t enjoy your date. Dress for comfort.